Bad Influence Audios

A.K.A. Milo St. James

BOUNDARIES

Thank you for taking some time to read these <3There’s been a lot of discourse recently about making audio erotica a safer place for both creators and listeners, since behavior can spiral pretty quickly into uncomfortable or, at times, unsafe territory.It’s important for me to share what kind of behavior aimed at my persona of Milo St. James, and my content I enjoy, as well as the kind of behavior that makes me feel uncomfortable, and, at times, unsafe.I love working with Quinn, and consider it to be one of the most positive forces in adult entertainment in… maybe ever. I love making things that make people feel good. I’ve been moved to tears at points, hearing stories of women finding parts of themselves they thought they had lost, or a safe place to heal while listening to my voice.With that said, my sense of safety is non-negotiable for me to continue doing this work. So I think it’s time I make my boundaries clear because if they’re violated, and I’m not able to regain my mental and physical safety, I will likely have to step away from this work in the future.

Last Updated: January 26, 2025

ANONYMITY

I know firsthand, curiosity can be a really powerful thing, but I ask, please, don’t fixate or speculate on who I am in real life.My anonymity allows me to feel safe because I do not want to share intimate details about my personal life. And I like to think it also allows listeners to maintain a healthy degree of fantasy while engaging with my audios.I know in the past I’ve shared certain details about myself. Some I find harmless, to add flavor to my audios. Others were that I felt necessary to curb unhealthy expectations from listeners.It’s important that the former stay in the audios and not in search engines. Please do not research, save, or share personal information about me.

ARCHIVING & DISTRIBUTING CONTENT

Over time I’ve intentionally removed certain content that I shared online in the past (ex. AMAs with my hands in them or depictions of my pet(s)).Please do not re-share or repost screenshots of posts that aren’t still available to the public.While I don’t regret sharing these when I did, they don’t promote true anonymity, and screenshots of that content are still, to this day, misused to try and identify me.I know I can't stop anyone from doing this–I can only ask. It makes me uncomfortable and anxious when I see/hear about people referencing or resharing screenshots of those old posts.I also do not consent to any recordings of my voice being uploaded to any A.I. programs or platforms for any purpose. In addition to the ethical and legal issues this raises, doing so threatens my livelihood.

COMMENTING ON QUINN

I genuinely love seeing some of your creative, funny and generous comments on my audios.There are certain comments that do make me uncomfortable, but I know it’s difficult to gauge where the line gets drawn and I also don’t want people to feel like they need to walk on eggshells, or stifle the fun.I’d appreciate it if in addition to following Quinn’s community rules, listeners try to avoid leaving comments that describe how they engaged physically with the audio in overtly graphic detail. These types of comments are the most likely to make me feel uncomfortable, and are more likely to be deleted if I see them.My favorite comments are usually jokes referencing movies or TV (I’m a nerd).

FEEDBACK

I value constructive and respectful feedback, especially if it’s to address any inclusivity or technical issues you notice in my audios. Please keep that feedback in the audio comments themselves - where I’m more likely to see them.I do ask that you be mindful of leaving any feedback you wouldn’t “say to my face.” I often get in my own head about what I’m creating in attempts to make everyone happy with every single audio. I know this is my own battle to fight, but I just end up paralyzed, which can, among other things, interfere with my creative output.

COMMUNICATIONS

Please do not try to contact me for any personal reasons.It’s unfortunate I have to say this, but I've had a few too many experiences of receiving repeated and unwanted messages from people who appeared, at first, well-intentioned.These experiences with unwanted communications from strangers have left me concerned for my own physical safety, the safety of my pets, and the safety of my loved ones.For this reason, all inquiries through my website are initially screened by a third-party before I get them. Anything not business related gets archived and will not be shared with me.

RELATIONSHIP AND ENFORCEMENT

Relationship and Enforcement
Supporting my content does not create a personal relationship between me and the listener.While I deeply appreciate appropriate listener support, it doesn’t entitle anyone to me, my creative direction, or any sort of special treatment. Just like it doesn’t entitle me to your time or energy.I don’t find any attempts to test my previously mentioned boundaries–even under the guise of being “familiar”, “friendly”, or “for fun”–humorous or enjoyable.Instead, I percieve it as someone searching for ways to circumvent my wishes for their own.My boundaries are not up for interpretation or exception. No one can speak for me but myself. There are no preferred listeners or fans that have more authority than any other.
I will address any violations appropriately, including escalating any concerns with Quinn, or law enforcement, if necessary.

THANK YOUI’m profoundly grateful that Quinn has given me a place to publish my voice, and that you continue to listen to my audios. It’s incredibly fulfilling to see that my work resonates with you.I’m continuously in awe of the community that has sprouted from Quinn’s garden; listeners have made real life friends bonding over self-exploration on this platform. That’s beautiful and just so goddamn cool.
I know the internet can be a divisive and at times harsh place. I urge this community to stay kind and gentle with themselves and with one another. (and also with me… please, haha.)I want you all to know how happy it makes me to think about the last five years. How much fun I’ve had, trying every day to think of new ways to excite you, and laughing at your senses of humor in the comments. You’ve all been so incredibly supportive every step of the way, and I don’t know how to express just how appreciative I am. One day I’ll find the words, but in the meantime, I’ll just keep making audios to try and show you.I’m always trying to grow and look inward, which means my boundaries may also change and evolve. This post will be updated if I feel there’s something necessary to add.